All It Takes Is A Little Love

By my own admission I am probably the worst business woman in the world. I never worked for money but for love of the career. I tried taking a few business classes and felt utterly bored and repulsed. I suppose I was lucky to be married to a man who seems to actually enjoy reading articles from The Economist and listening to experts in the world of business. He freed me from any need to pore over figures or study the economic situation from one moment to the next. While he devotes much of his day to understanding what is happening in that realm I am free to write and interact with the few students that I now have. That is where my interest lies and he makes it possible for me to do that without being encumbered  by business decisions. 

In spite of my revulsion of the world of business I am fully aware of its importance in everyone’s daily life. I am fascinated in particular with the real movers and shakers of the world, not so much out of an interest in emulating them, but from the standpoint of understanding the psychology of what drives them to want so much more than what they actually need. In that spirit I am constantly watching documentaries and reading stories and editorials about the movers and shakers of the past and present. I admit to benefitting from many of the things that they made possible while also wondering why they are all too often driven to cross lines of decency to keep adding to their bottom line.

I recently viewed a series called Titans. It began in the Gilded Age that developed just after the Civil War and continued into the dawn of the twentieth century. The recurring theme of the program was that power seems to all too often corrupt even the most well intentioned people. Becoming wealthy is not enough for some individuals. They seem to be lured more by power than just money. Once they get on a roll there never seems to be a point at which they feel comfortable just living on what they have accumulated. They become consumed by a kind of greed that overtakes their sense of honor. They have to keep winning and all too often in that vein they eventually cross lines of legitimacy that ultimately ruin them and hurt others as well. 

I remember my grandfather talking about his life at the end of the nineteenth century when he was a young man just starting his journey as an adult. He talked about economic panics that left ordinary citizens scraping to stay housed and fed. He watched rich people taking advantage of poor souls who were ignorant of the actual value of things. It bothered him intensely to witness wealth being hoarded while seeing families in such dire straits that they were starving. He was very much a proponent of government guard rails that insure that every citizen will have enough to live decently. He understood that for many different reasons there would always be people who needed extra help and he applauded the idea of making sure that they will have what they need. 

In my grandfather’s youth the rich were only rarely controlled in their determination to do whatever it took to keep feeding money into their coffers. It was Theodore Roosevelt who first became a trust buster by setting rules that made the playing field of commerce just a bit more fair. Sadly the stock market crash that led to the Great Depression was proof that the so called Titans of wall street were still out of control. It would take Franklin Roosevelt to design programs like Social Security and proportional taxation among many other efforts to control greed and distribute national wealth.

Starting in the nineteen eighties some of the safeguards that had led to more and more opportunities for the common citizen once again came under attack. Taxes were greatly reduced in favor of the wealthiest Americans The theory was that if they kept more of their wealth they would distribute it with jobs and perhaps even philanthropy. Sadly that has not always happened. Today there are hundreds of billionaires in the United States who find ways of avoiding taxes of any kind. In addition Congress eventually gave them the ability to send millions of dollars to political candidates who are willing to legislate in their favor. It’s beginning to look more and more like the times of my grandfather’s youth when the richest citizens were calling all the shots and many ordinary citizens are struggling. 

As a teacher of economically disadvantaged students I heard a recurring story over and over again. These children lived in tiny apartments or rented houses sometimes without even having a bed to sleep in at night. Many of them spoke of parents who worked multiple jobs just to keep the family housed and fed. They spoke of mothers and fathers who left before dawn in the morning and did not return home until late at night so exhausted that they could barely walk. The oldest children became the surrogate parents of their younger siblings, feeding and bathing them before putting them to bed. Only then did they have time to do their own homework and studying. They too were perennially exhausted. 

We have many Americans who believe that creating programs like universal healthcare are forms of communism, but I would argue that such safety nets are  simply the decent thing to do. All too often the poor never get out of the rut in which they toil while wealthy people buy second homes and travel all over the world. We have a reluctance to ask them to give a little more to insure that the suffering among us will have the baseline assurance of having their most basic needs met. Why would we all be so greedy that we would not want everyone who is able to help the most desperate among us to climb higher on the ladder of success? It’s idealist, I know, but it would be wonderful if our nation became a titan of fairness just by asking all who can to give just a bit more. We did it before. We can do it again.

For as long as I can remember I have loved to write. I even created a neighborhood “newspaper” when I was a kid. I made copies by hand, carefully printing each story in my best script and drawing the illustrations with an eye to making them all appear to be the same. I sometimes gave out my subscriptions for free but most of the time I asked for anywhere from a penny to a nickel depending on how much effort it took to recreate each edition. I did the same kind of thing when I visited my grandmother on Friday evenings. Since it was family my offerings were gratis and I limited the number of copies to one per family. 

I never got much feedback on my efforts which was fine with me. It was just something that I wanted to do. It brought me pleasure to write almost as much as I derived from reading. I suppose that at the back of my mind I fancied myself as a great author whose stories and novels would make me rich and famous. Sadly my life took many unexpected turns and I was usually too busy as an adult just attempting to get by from day to day to follow my dream. Still, the thought of being a bonafide author lived on inside my heart. 

When I finally retired in my sixties I wrote an autobiography that lingers in the bowels of my laptop computer because I never seem to get around to formatting it and creating an ebook that that people might purchase. I suppose that my excuses might be mostly related to my fear that my writing would not be of any interest to others. Somehow it’s better to think that I just haven’t had the time to publish my work than to realize that mine is a mediocre vanity project about which nobody would care enough to expend a few dollars to purchase it. 

I remember my high school English teacher noting at one time that some of us were born to be admirers of greatness rather than creators. I’ve certainly done my share of enjoying the true talents of some amazing writers whose ways with worlds cause me to question why I would think that my so-called book would be any better than those silly little newspapers that I created as a child. I remain frozen in fear of failing and so I never really try to get my book into the public, which is an easy but embarrassing way out. 

I write a blog from Monday through Friday and there was a time when many people took the time to peruse what I had to say with daily devotion. As time went by fewer and fewer souls bothered to see what I had to offer. Perhaps it is because I have become more and more political in my musing for quite some time. Maybe the truth is that my words have become stale and what I have to say is just a constant repetition of meaningless ideas. All I know is that my audience has waned so much that even if I were to finally muster the courage to get my book on the market few would take the time to read its contents or even know that it was finally available.

Along the way a classmate who attended the same high school as I did noticed my blog and became intrigued with the idea that he too had something of worth to share with the world. He took a great deal of time to polish his presentations into a very professional format. More importantly what he had to say was quite simply amazing. I found myself in awe of his ability to string words together in a way that is so interesting that I wait with bated breath to see the next installment. His talent for both prose and poetry is stunning. His work is worth a read and I urge everyone who sees my blogs to visit his site at https://www.houston-iforgotsomething.com/my-stories. You will not be disappointed. 

All of this has made me wonder if indeed my greatest gift is to be an appreciator of talent just like my English teacher described. Perhaps what I was always destined to do is discover the gifts of others. I was exceptionally good at doing that as an educator. So many of my students surpassed me in their knowledge and achievements. I celebrate their successes and feel a level of pride in knowing that I was part of their journey. Now that I have witnessed the writing skills of my former classmate I find myself rejoicing once again that somehow I inspired him to present his work to a wider audience . His is a true gift that demands to be shared and it brings me joy to know that he found the courage to share his stories and poems from reading my own offerings. 

I still have that book in the cloud of my computer. I am considering making it a series on my blog site rather than worrying ever creating a cover and wondering how much to charge anyone who wants to read what I have to say. I never wrote it for the money, but for the love. It might be fun to get it out there to see if anyone finds merit in my very personal story. 

In the meantime follow the link above to discover a promising writer named J. Michael Boland. You will not regret taking the time to do so. In fact, I suspect that you will await his new offerings with anticipation. Frankly I think he will be discovered and we will all be able to say that we read his works before fame came his way. 

I’ll let you know when I revert to publishing bits and pieces of my book. I think it is something I should do before my thoughts turn to dust. Stayed tuned for a story called A Little Bit of Living coming soon. 

Who was this person named Jesus who walked on this earth over two thousand years ago? There is little historical evidence of his presence other than the stories in the Bible that were written after his death. How is it possible that the preaching and example of a man from so long ago has had such and impact on humanity? 

The Old Testament of the Bible outlines the story of the Jewish people whose suffering was offset by their belief in a single God rather than the many gods of yore. They were promised a messiah who would at long last bring them the peace for which they longed. Many forerunners to Jesus of Nazareth foretold of the coming of the son of God but the wait for the Jewish people was long and often brutal. When Jesus was born with humble parents in a manger it is said that a star in the east signaled his arrival. Nonetheless for many Jews he was not the one on whom they had laid their hopes. 

As the Bible tells us Jesus lived mostly in obscurity as he was growing into a man. We know that he learned about his Jewish faith from his parents and that he once frightened his parents when he went to the temple without informing them. He was quietly readying himself for the task that lay before him. 

When Jesus finally began to teach his lessons they did not always fall in line with the rules and regulations being taught by the elders. His was a kinder, gentler and more inclusive message than the strictures imposed by the religion of his youth. He performed miracles on the Sabbath in defiance of a law that insisted that he ignore suffering in compliance of the long held rules. He was unafraid to mingle with people who were shunned by society and the religious leaders of his time. He told stories of good Samaritans that defied the general thinking of his time. He was a rebel and a trouble maker in the eyes of many who worried that his growing popularity might create troubles that had been tamped down by long held beliefs and rules. Some even saw him as a heretic who was defiling the laws of the Jewish faith.

Jesus nonetheless offered a new vision of how to treat each other that was based on what should have been a very simple message of love. He demonstrated his own humility and his willingness to minister to everyone, not just a select few who were deemed to be good by the society in which he lived. He preached a message of tolerance and forgiveness and a willingness to understand each other. His sermons insisted that even the outcasts of the time were loved and cherished by God. 

Jesus was a threat to both the religious and political leaders of his time as his popularity grew among the common people. His triumphant arrival into Jerusalem attracted crowds of people wanting to see him and know him and touch him. They laid down a carpet of palms for his donkey to walk on as a sign of how much they respected him, but their adoration was short lived. They folded and hid once he was arrested and tried as a criminal. Even when given a chance to free him they chose a thief instead lest they too be harassed or even imprisoned for their belief in him. 

The story of Jesus of Nazareth is inspiring and hopeful but we humans have all too often distorted the beauty of his simple message by inserting rules and dictates that never seemed to be important to him. He wanted to keep his commandments as simple as possible so that even children would understand them. He wanted us to love each other above all other laws He made no exceptions. He did not tell us to turn our back on people that we humans call sinners. He did not ask us to judge others but rather to find love in our own hearts for even the outsiders of our society. 

Jesus died an horrific death by suffocation as his ability to hold himself in a posture that allowed him to breathe became more and more difficult as he hung on a cross. Eventually his energy waned and his body sagged and he was painfully unable to breathe. It was a brutal death in which he was called a criminal and he died next to other criminals whose transgressions he was ready to forgive. He died being jeered with the once admiring crowds abandoning him. His buddies the apostles were hiding in fear. Only his mother, Mary Madeline, his cousin John, and a stranger mourned at the foot of his cross. 

I have always believed that the total essence of the message of Jesus is encapsulated in his final days on this earth. If we truly pay attention to the humanness of what happened to him we see that he was never concerned with condemning anyone who was different, unloved, misunderstood or an outcast from society. His message even when he was dying was one of love. He wanted us to see that even the son of God can be likened to a dangerous criminal whenever we become wrongly judgemental. He wanted us to understand that all people regardless of the story of their lives should be loved and cherished. 

In 2026, we have many Christians seeming to be more like the Pharisee’s than Jesus. They preach hateful ideas that judge people that they do not understand. They build walls between us and turn us against each other, all things that Jesus never did. 

I believe with all of my heart that if Jesus were here among us today he would urge us to love and care for the immigrants seeking asylum from horrific situations. He would want us to care for the homeless and treat them as equals to ourselves. He would embrace the members of the LGBTQ community and remind us that God does not make junk. I think he would want us to strive for peace and understanding. He would remind us that it is our duty to love without placing restrictions on who that might be. 

Holy week is a time to reassess our understanding of Jesus and to try once again to truly embrace his message. When something we do feels hateful toward certain groups or people, we would do well to ask ourselves what Jesus would do. I believe that the message is so clear. He would smile and tell us to love. 

My father spent his high school years living in Corpus Christi, Texas. It was there that he met his two best friends, Bob and Lloyd. The trio would all go to Texas A&M together and remain so close that they might have been brothers. 

I have always felt that my father would have liked to find work in Corpus Christi so that he might live there. I know that he tried numerous times but nothing ever came of his applications. The last time that he attempted to find a way to be a permanent citizen of that city was only months away from the day when he died at the age of thirty three. 

My father loved the idea of living near Corpus Christi Bay and spending time along the Gulf of Mexico. He was at his happiest when he was there fishing, not so much to win a prize or for food but just to feel the ocean breezes blowing on his face. I remember that while he was job hunting there he kept his fishing pole and gear in the trunk of our car so that he might head for the ocean on a whim. My eight year old job was to sit quietly next to him marveling at his patience in waiting for a fish to bite. 

My father was a Mechanical Engineer and he loved to talk about the potential of the future that was to be found in engineering. He liked the idea of building things and marveled at the possibility that the world might one day learn how to desalinate the waters of the ocean in ways so economically sound that nobody would ever have to worry about having enough of the liquid that we all need to survive. Back in the mid-nineteen fifties that idea was still a bit of an engineering dream much like traveling to the moon. 

If my father had lived he would have seen mankind’s ability to move beyond the limitations of our earthly atmosphere. While desalination of water has grown in the Middle East, it still provides only one percent of the water that humans use on this earth. Of late it is finding more and more favor in Florida and California but much still needs to be done before desalination provides humans with a constant source of water from the oceans on a large scale.

I’ve been thinking of my father’s excitement over the idea of bringing water to the people of the world from the vast supply in the oceans. In recent times with global warming there are troubling trends threatening different locales in the United States where the water supply is in danger of drying up. There are already places in Arizona where lovely neighborhoods once stood that have been abandoned because the sources of water became dry.

Now my father’s old home of Corpus Christi is facing a dire situation. Without rain and with the increasing use of water as the city and its industries have grown the water supply is threatened with some believing that there will be none to be had in some areas before the end of this year. Already residents are under strict rationing rules that become more and more draconian as no signs of relief drain the existing water supply. 

The double edged sword for the citizens of Corpus Christi is that they must have the businesses and industries that create jobs but those entities are using a disproportionate amount of the existing water. To use a cliche, they are damned if the do and damned if they don’t limit the water needed to run the refineries and plants that provide the funding that keeps the lights on in the town. Ironically there is water water everywhere in the bay and ocean around them but not a drop that they can drink.

There has been talk of building a desalination plant in Corpus Christi for years but the cost of doing so has always seemed prohibitive. Suddenly the idea is catching hold again but time is fleeting and even if the funding became available today the work would not be done before many residents may find themselves turning on a tap that runs dry. 

Corpus Christi is not the only place in Texas that is being threatened with a shortage of water. Much of the beautiful Texas Hill Country has been so dry that spring and summer wildfires are common. Many of the loveliest neighborhoods are banned from watering grass or plants for more than a few minutes each week. The land is dry and parched which also lends itself to flash flooding when it does finally rain. In spite of the warning signs more and more people are moving into the area and building new homes 

The scientists and engineers are fully aware of the problems but the brokers of real estate just keep ignoring the threats in so many parts of the United States. We take that moisture that fills our lakes and our wells for granted without considering the consequences of what will happen if a dry spell lingers too long. 

There are answers to the problems that we face but they will take inventive souls and the will of the people to expend the funds to reassure the growing population that their homes will not become ruins when and if the water that feeds them is gone. We have to begin thinking ahead of environmental tragedies rather than only reacting to them once they have already happened. The days of putting our heads in the sand are going to create tragedies if we fail to pay attention and to make the sacrifices that are needed. I hate to think of Corpus Christi or any other place on this lovely planet becoming uninhabitable because we were not stewards of the land. I hear my father’s voice growing excited over the possibilities of solving such problems. Perhaps it’s long past time to bring the engineers together on a new project as exciting as going to the moon. Insuring sources of water for humans is indeed a very noble project. 

Sometimes I wonder if my take on the world of today is filtered through the lens of my age and the number of losses that I have endured. At the age of seventy seven I have to admit that in spite of the many ups and downs mine has been a good life, but of late the daily news is more often than not disturbing. I find myself longing for calm and peace rather than stories about wars, shootings, chaotic upheavals of the economy and other bad news. After the Covid pandemic I had hoped that the world would settle down into a long appreciation of surviving with all of us humans quietly focusing on the most important aspects of life. I did not expect the ensuing chaos that feeds the daily headlines and creates continued uncertainty across the globe. This is not how I imagined my last years on this earth to be, but I suppose the pattern is in keeping with the flow of history. 

Somehow we humans have a very difficult time getting along with one another. While it seems easy enough to me if we just work together and allow people to be themselves, that is quite a pipe dream when set against reality. The truth is that we have a finite amount of resources and opportunities that fuel the problems that we keep having with each other. The story of our beginnings as told in the Bible tells us that the first man and woman lived in the kind of paradise that most of us would truly enjoy but even back then they were tempted to take more than they had been given. Their original sin follows the rest of us for all time. 

Even if this is only a metaphorical story created to warn us about the flaws of our human emotions it is still a powerful explanation of our tendencies to never be satisfied with equality for all. The same jealousies that pushed Cain to kill Abel are present in the wars that we humans have inflicted on one another throughout history. While our natures have the capacity to be kind and loving we always seem to have someone or some groups among us who lie and cheat and steal and want to dominate rather than just living in peace. Mankind’s inhumanity to each other creates problems after problems over and over again.

Sometimes those problems manifest themselves in very personal ways. Humans sometimes hurt those closest to them in emotional and physical ways. In an almost cyclical repetition wars seem to spring up over and over again when we grow wearing of trying to understand each other or when greed for resources overpowers our will to compromise with groups and nations that see the world very differently than the way we do. 

I am admittedly the kind of person who prefers detente. I am more than willing to share and listen to ideas and philosophies that are very different from my own. I have been fortunate to live in the United States of America, a nation rich in both material and human resources. I view our country as a delightful salad of many colors and beliefs. My way of thinking is mostly to live and let live, but of course there are times when evil has to be curbed but doing so should not impose limits on how the majority of good people choose to be from day to day. 

We boast that we have freedom to speak our minds and to protest things that we believe are unfair but then we engage in culture wars that demean those whose thoughts about how to live are different from our own. This is especially egregious when the limitations on our basic liberties are legislated by those who govern us. There are very good reasons why the founders of our nation created the Bill of Rights. We should all want to protect our liberties even when we have disagreements. When I participate in a “No Kings” protest I am not being unpatriotic. In fact, I am celebrating my right to express my concerns. Nor am I being hateful when I critique the president and his overreach in unilaterally creating tariffs or declaring war. I am using my rights as a citizen when I point out the problems with ICE. I am not being anti religion when I worry that Christian Nationalism is moving into classrooms and being used as a cover for threatening people whose beliefs do not jibe with theirs. 

I have many friends and relatives whom I dearly love and would fight or even die for whose political stances are the polar opposite of mine. I want to be able to explain to them why I have developed my own feelings about how our government should work rather than being accused of being unpatriotic and even sometimes being tossed aside. I am sickened by the group speak of those whose politics worry me. When I hear the same sentences being echoed over and over again I worry that too many are being propagandized rather than treated with honesty and a willingness to have adult conversations about what we need in this world to grow and prosper rather than eternally feuding. 

I am weary of the fighting that is tearing the world apart and specifically turning individuals against each other and yet here we are. Just as Joseph Goebbels used his propaganda to turn ordinary Germans into believers of the fascist Nazi movement. I see much of the all present media using emotional tactics to influence our thinking rather than showing us facts that help us to identify and accurately assess problems. When people tell me that immigrants are raping and killing as though it is a given that large numbers of them are criminals I want to hear real statistics which they can never provide. They have been bombarded with generalizations that play on their fears and emotions. When I hear outrage over trans women hurting young girls in sports or bathrooms I realize that a tiny percent of the population is being used to stir up unnecessary trouble. Fear and want are fuels of propaganda.

The truth is that the vast majority of immigrants are hard working family members. The criminals are outliers, exceptions who can be arrested without creating chaos for those of good will. The truth is that few people have ever encountered a trans individual and the numbers of them who participate in sports is so small that they represent less than one percent of the athletes. It would be so much better if we were to attempt to understand that these souls are mostly kind and well intentioned rather than than pariahs who must be wiped out of our society. 

I know that we humans have the capacity to get along if we are willing to stop the quibbling and to select leaders who demonstrate a willingness to work together rather than to drive us apart. There will be blips in the process because in the grand scheme of things there will always be broken souls driven by hatred, greed and a lust for power. We would do well to avoid any group that survives by turning us against each other. We should shun them not our fellow citizens.

Somehow all of the examples of history that should have taught us to beware of any movement that takes aim at certain groups have yet to keep us from being manipulated by power seekers. When will we learn?